Book: Go Ask AliceAuthor: Anonymous
Recommended by: Maria Pelayo
For: Summer Reading
Interview Response:
1. What do you think the biggest lesson of this book is?
"I think the biggest lesson of this book is that you have to be careful to cut your family out of your life completely because oftentimes (as dysfunctional as they can be) they are the only ones that care enough about you to help. Alice slammed the door shut on her family and they had no idea where she was or what she was doing with her life. I'm sure they would have done their best to help."
2. How do you think this book could help current drug users or just everyone?
"The story is a sad one because I feel like Alice doesn't really get all her answer
s. She had to go to the extremes of human depravity, only to come back to where she started and fix her life. I think the book is not meant to help drug users, but rather the friends and family of drug users. After reading this book, I totally began to understand why it is so difficult to help someone in this situation. Their reality is COMPLETELY different than mine and this prevents both of us from understanding one another. It can help people who know a drug user see their perspective and have compassion for the state they're in."
3. In pg. 126 she talks about how its not only the kids' fault but the adults fault too. Do you agree with this? why or why not?
"Absolutely! I look at the way we treat kids in this country and I'm horrified
by it. We often don't give them a voice until it's too late. We don't have real conversations about drugs and sex, we just tell the to say no. It's about honesty, transparency and realistic expectations. We think it's okay to sit kids in front of TV shows that are filled with sex, yet we don't have a conversation with them about it until it's too late. Kids see adults taking tons of prescription medications just to make it through the day, but they tell kids to just deal with their own stress naturally, even though drugs are so present in kids' lives. So yes, I think the adults are just as much to blame as the kids. We need to get more real about conversations and the temptations that surround our teens."
4. Why do you think she died at the end even though she was trying so hard to leave her past behind?
"I think some people get more in touch with human darkness than is healthy to know. The darkness is as much a part of our lives as is the light, but when we go and purposely explore the darkness, it's possible to lose our way back home. I think she died because she was too far gone into that darkness. Things like love no longer made sense to her and so love lost the strength to bring her back. She possibly didn't believe in herself enough to do the hard work it takes to come back from addiction. Low self-esteem could also be the cause of her addiction. A difficulty addicts face is not being able to cope with difficulties. At this point, it could have been something as simple as burning her breakfast that made her feel like a loser and sent her
spiraling into that depression that could only be numbed through drugs."
5. Who throughout her life do you think helped her the most to be a better person?
"I think her family tried very hard but ultimately could not understand her. I don't think there were any lasting people that helped her, they mostly enabled her or encouraged her behaviors. Although it doesn't seem like it, I think her family helped her the most."
6. Do you think her parents were good or bad parents? and why?
"I don't know. There seemed to be a lack of understanding from her family and perhaps they didn't understand her perspective, but that doesn't make them bad parents. I think when the book was written, parents didn't know how to have drug conversations with kids, they still don't. The parents seemed to do everything that was in their power to do, it just wasn't enough for Alice."
7. How do you think parents in general influence their children' decisions or on whether they do drugs or not?
"I believe parents are the biggest influence on children, but the conversat
ion has to be real. Instead of telling kids, just don't do it, they can talk about why kids are curious to do drugs. Kids want to be accepted, especially by their parents. If parents go out of their way to make kids feel comfortable in talking about drugs, I think realistic conversations can happen. Parents should be aware of their children's insecurities because more than likely, this is the behavior causing kids to go to drugs for an answer. Parents have this influence and should definitely use it to understand their children more."
8. Do you think in some way its the parents fault that their child does drugs because they don't pay enough attention to them?
"Sometimes. There's definitely some behaviors that parents should not ignore. If a parent begins to ignore their child, the child will just try to get attention in a different way, usually more destructive. It comes down to knowing your children so that you know when they're in trouble."
9. What do you think we should all do to stop this problem?
"Educate kids for real. Have real conversations. Talk about the difficulties
of being a teenager. Teach ways to cope with stress. Teach meditation (not kidding!) as it will calm the mind."
10. What was your favorite part of this book? and how did the end make you feel?
"My favorite part of the book was the end because the story was getting too intense for me. It was almost like, there was nothing worse that could happen to Alice- but then it did. The end made me very sad, but it also put her hurting spirit to rest. Sometimes only death can calm such a depressed individual and we have to be happy that they are in peace. Although it was very sad, the ending put closure on an intense situation."
My Response: I felt like this was a very sad and scary book. This book is a diary of a fifteen year old girl in high school who is a drug user. The first time she was introduced to drugs was in a party with the "popular kids" she went to while she was visiting her grandparents. Without knowing she drank a coke they gave her at the party with LSD in it. After that she kept trying different drugs and hanging out with the people at the party, which were only a bad influence for her. After that she started becoming a different person and left home two times. After the second time she left she came back and decided to become a good
person to make her family and her grandparents proud of her. At her school she was known as a person who was once busted for having drugs and she sometimes felt lonely and scared and she felt like she shouldn't have been born. Her past would sometimes hunt her down but she tried her best to keep being a good girl no matter how hard it was or how lonely she felt or if the only people that supported her were her parents she still tried her best and at the end she decided she wasn't going to keep a diary and three weeks after that she died of an overdose. It is not known if it was an accidental overdose or a premeditated overdose. After reading that she died I was shocked and sad at the same time because she had been trying so hard the last months to stop using drugs and to make her family proud but at the end she wasn't able to make it and she died. All her hard work and effort and tears were basically not worth it because she died.
It was shocking that all this happened because of her "friends." They would invite her to parties and that's were they would trick her. Also the bad influences and friends around her made her use more and more drug. It was like if every time she tried to stop there was someone who would give her drugs. Even when she definitely decide to stop using drugs the "dopers" at her school kept calling her names and telling her that
they were going to get her. They even put drugs once on a food she ate and that made her go to a mental hospital. This book teaches you that drugs are very dangerous and that they can change a person so quickly. It can make someone do something they wouldn't do if they weren't on drugs and act crazy. It takes the people who use it to different worlds which they think its awesome but when they don't have it they feel horrible and like everything in the world is not worth it. Drugs can destroy a person's life and it can destroy the people around them. She would have probably been a successful psychologist in the future and have a happy life with Joel but because of drugs she died being so young and barely have lived anything. Drugs were the ones that lead her to her death and basically destroyed her life.


